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Why the Scale Is Sabotaging Your Fitness Progress (And What to Focus on Instead)

Alisha Carlson, Fitness and Nutrition Coach for Moms Episode 239

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In this powerful episode of The StrongHer Way, Alisha Carlson shares the truth most fitness influencers won’t tell you: the number on the scale isn’t the goal—it’s a distraction.

Whether you’re a busy mom chasing confidence, strength, or that sculpted look, this conversation will help you redefine success beyond weight loss. Alisha breaks down what body recomposition actually is, why toning is a myth, and how non-scale victories are the true measure of transformation.

If you’ve been chasing a smaller body hoping to feel better, this is your wake-up call to build a stronger one—and finally feel like you again.

 What You’ll Learn in This Episode:

  • Why obsessing over the scale can sabotage your results
  • The real difference between fat loss, weight loss, and body recomposition
  • Why the “toned” look comes from building muscle—not cardio or calorie cuts
  • How your self-worth has nothing to do with your weight
  • The power of celebrating non-scale victories to stay motivated
  • What it really means to take a holistic, sustainable approach to fitness
  • How to shift your mindset and unlock a deeper level of transformation

 Key Takeaways:

  • Obsessing over the scale will hold you back.
  • The scale doesn’t measure your progress, your worth, or your strength.
  • Muscle building is essential for long-term body confidence.
  • You’re already worthy—your weight doesn’t define you.
  • “Toning” isn’t real. Strength is.
  • Track your progress in how you feel, move, and lead—not just how you look.
  • Sustainable health starts in the mind and ends in embodied confidence.


 Episode Chapters:

00:00 – Breaking Free from the Scale Obsession
02:36 – Redefining Worth Beyond Weight
05:43 – Understanding Body Recomposition vs. Weight Loss
08:23 – The Myth of Toning and Building Muscle
11:37 – Tracking Progress Beyond the Scale
14:17 – The Importance of Non-Scale Wins
17:21 – Shifting Focus from Numbers to Feelings
20:06 – Creating Lasting Change Through Mindset

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